Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Playing cello with the Piano Guys--April 19, 2015

Sam with Piano Guys cellist Stephen Sharp Nelson
Good evening to loved family and friends. I hope that all goes well wherever you may be, and that the sorrows and cares of life are being made light through Christ. I have been just busy out of my mind recently, and I will just write briefly tonight {he says}, but I am grateful very much for loving support and prayers as we do everything we can to waste and wear out our lives for the Lord. I'm starting to figure out that life will be kind of hard. There's a lot of things to do and a lot of people to serve, and a responsibility to be better every day means that you can't stay inside, that you can't build up a safe wall around yourself, but you always need to be going out and serving and doing more than you think you can, doing more and more good every day. I'm grateful to be able to able to be learning a little bit of that now, because it's not going to get any easier when college or work or family comes. The Piano Guys {which include the pianist John Schmidt and cellist Stephen Sharp Nelson; see them at https://www.youtube.com/user/ThePianoGuys} were here for a fireside last night. Brother Nelson that a mission is a wonderful opportunity because it's like a charity scrimmage- you just go out and try to serve and love as much as you can, practicing everyday- what better way is there to learn to love than trying to do everything you can to serve every day, especially among such wonderful people?

I appreciated some very timely advice from mom and dad this week, who reminded once again the importance of differentiating between urgent and important work, and not letting essential projects give way to chaff along the way. In addition, counsel from the Bhagavad Gita: we have a right to our labor, but not to the fruits of our labor. We see no results until after the trial of our faith. We'll continue to do the best that we can always, and hope that it does some good sometime.

Demonstrations are still going on in Gwanghwamun, and it took us two and a half hours to get home from the church this last Saturday, just nuts. We went on two exchanges this week, and had a lot of fun experiences, including teaching and giving baptismal dates to three students from China. Lots of miracles every day. I'm also starting to realize that being in the office is different from the missionary work that I have been doing, and every opportunity to get out, especially during a busy time, is a blessing. The weather continues to fluctuate, but is generally very nice.

Sam playing Brother Nelson's Marcello
I don't know if I mentioned last week that The Piano Guys would be coming for a fireside this past Sunday, but come they did, and performed remarkably. I have long looked up to them, especially Stephen Sharp Nelson, not just as incredible musical innovators and performers, but just as good men who live what they believe, and that came apparent more than ever last night, as they rushed from the airport straight to our church building to bear testimonies and favor us with some incredible pieces of music. They were with us until late, and then had to go to another dinner appointment and get to their hotel in preparation for their concert tonight here in Korea. I was up on the stand, translating for Paul Anderson {the producer and videographer}, and got to interact with and talk with them all a lot. Stephen Sharp Nelson told me the story behind his cello that he had with him, and let me play it afterwards as they were eating. Just a really cool experience, and a lot of what they said will stick with me. These are men that have followed their passion, and have found joy and success in bringing their abilities before the Lord and watching Him magnify them. I saw so many people that I knew, it was like a mission reunion. In addition to missionaries, recent converts and less actives were there from almost every area that I've served in, as well as members that I haven't seen in a very long time. Carly, that we met on exchanges in Imun, was there and had a great time, and is meeting with the Imun sisters every week.
Sam with Elder Choi after jeondo, "street
contacting." Their hair is all wet
because of the humidity
Mission tour with President Ringwood is this week, and there is so much to do. I'm working now on making three videos that need to be done by then, and in addition to other preparation and such, the fun never stops. Next week will be a welcome chance to do actual missionary work {get out of the office and talk to people}, if we make it through. Many of my friends will be in finals and tests now as well- good luck. Many thanks for your love and prayers, and all of my love always.

E South

In which Sam writes about half his email in Korean--April 12, 2015

I hope that all are well! It's a beautiful spring today! Flowers and sunshine. Maybe cold and sunshine tomorrow, but whatever comes, there will be smiles. Now that General Conference is over, we can go without suit coats {that must be some sort of date marker for them}, so today is this year's first short sleeve day! Unfortunately Elder Perry is a bit under the weather, but at least there's no better weather to be under. I wrote some thoughts this past week in my journal, of which some are below. I love you all, and wish for the best.

{These are partial journal entries, and I guess he writes a lot in Korean which means a lot of use of the web/google translate to get through this email!}

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Today is a Wednesday, the day following MLC {mission leadership conference}. Yesterday was also my brother Daniel’s birthday. It would have been nice to ask Sister Kelly to send a birthday email or something, but due to the craziness, I wasn’t able to. We did party as best as we could. We were up at 6, and scrambling around and getting things set up and worked all day. There were a bunch of zones  {groups of missionaries} that stayed afterwards to plan for their zone trainings, and we had to get everyone out with packages {that come in the mail} and such, clean up, talk with Elder Choi’s recent convert who goes to the high school next to us, and eat a quick, quick dinner--ham and egg sandwiches and a bowl of cereal--before meeting with some elders for LPP {language preparation? no idea what that is}. I was with Elder Skinner, who is serving in 교문, and we talked for a while and then decided to focus on How To Begin Teaching. The more I meet with new missionaries, the more I realize how much use a handout would be that addresses learning Korean at an early stage. It turns out that Elder Skinner held a video game world record for 6 months, for some game that I hadn’t heard of, but was an older Atari game, it seems like.

We went a little bit long on our training, but we didn’t get to start until later, so maybe that was it. It went more smoothly than normal. We watched a few videos, “None Were With Him,” and a Bible video- “I am the Good Shepherd.” It really hit me that Christ knows His sheep, and are known of Him. I want to know my sheep, too. Am I a shepherd or a hireling, who does not stand up when things are tough? President and Sister Christensen gave excellent trainings. It turns out that {YouTube sensations} the Piano Guys will probably come for a fireside soon, because they know the family of a sister in our mission, and Jon Schmidt {the piano partner of the Piano Guys} served his mission here in Korea. We're not sure yet, though, if that will work out.

We went to Dongdaemun for zone training and exchanges afterwards. We ate before zone training at the 김밥 천국 {Google translate says "Rolled in Heaven"} by Jegi Dong, the classic place where I ate frequently during my first months in Korea. I got kimchi jjigae, gobbaegi- just incredible {the web says "Kimchi Jjigae is a Korean kimchi stew made with very fermented cabbage kimchi with pork." 

The focus this month continues to be the Book of Mormon, but is combined with working with less-active members who aren't attending church often. Sister Jeon told a great story of how she sent a letter to a less-active friend with the three questions that we can ask less actives to help them remember how they felt at the time of their conversion, and didn’t receive a reply for 6 months. 6 months later, a letter came, with the answers to the questions and the fact that she was now going to church again. Less activity and activity doesn't come at a cut off point, but more of a gradient, where we’re all trying to get to Jesus Christ.

I went to Imun with Elder Zimmer and Elder Moore after we opened our exchange briefly in Dongdaemun church, which is the oldest chapel in Asia, and one that President Hinckley {former leader of the church, now deceased} has spoken at multiple times. Imun is even more fun than I remember. We got out of the station, saw the fruit guy that I came to know so well as we would wait for appointments, and talked with him for a while. He said that the yoghurt lady who would also wait didn’t come there anymore. The first person we talked to was a Chinese guy who we set up an appointment with. He lives in our area, Sindang, so it worked out great. There are several new stores around the area, but it was so fun to see that things are so similar, but I see things differently now. Imun really changed who I am as a missionary, as did the investigators that we met there.

Time continues to pass, and far more happens than I could ever write. Continuing with exchanges in Imun, we went to English class and then one of the members bought us dinner at Tomato. We also saw Brother Kim, it’s been quite a while! It was really fun to be back, kind of nostalgic. I taught a lady who really just didn’t know a thing the alphabet with along with Sister Lee.There was a letter from a different Sister Lee on the bulletin board at the church, and that brought back great memories of teaching together and buckwheat 냉면 {cold noodles}. It seems like she’s doing well in California.

On Thursday during our companionship study time I called some old investigators, and Brother Lee and Brother Mun said that they could meet. We ordered Dos Mas burritos, and went to the appointment, after just meeting a kind man from Uijeongbu right outside our old apartment. He was easy to talk to, and accepted a Book of Mormon. Things went all right with Brother Lee, he’s still maybe not completely ready, but we talked about the Spirit, read John 14, and watched President Monson’s Sunday morning talk in conference with him. We left to go proselyte for a bit, and made our way up kind of by Kyeonghee Dae. I had just finished talking with someone when someone called “Elder, elder!” I turned around and met Carly, who was adopted from Korea and grew up in Connecticut, of all places. Her mother and sister had been members of the church, so she had grown up with missionaries eating over and doing laundry at their house and stuff (missionaries do that?). She lives in Nokbeon area, but is going to school at Kyeonghee for a couple of months to try to pick up some Korean. She had a good impression of the church, and was interested in learning more. I called the sisters, and we met them outside the church, talked for a while, and then we left and the sisters taught a lesson. I hope things go well, I haven’t heard more since then.

Proselyting is just super fun. Just the most fun thing to do, especially in Imun. You think and hear of people rejecting you or being mean to you, at least elsewhere, but that really doesn’t happen that much at all here. Some people are not interested, but most will talk, or at least will after you keep talking with them and they realize that you can say more than hello. Sometimes we start out in English for younger students, because they like to practice sometimes, but sometimes it terrifies people. Usually you can see the fear start to well up and ask your question again in Korean, but the other day by our house a student we talked to at first just stood there, then took off running with his backpack around the corner as fast as he could possibly go. 

We met up again in Dongdaemun and finished our exchange on Thursday, then went to meet our picketing investigator in front of the Blue House {the official residence of the Korean President}. He doesn’t give a lot of room to talk, but has a lot of questions. The Blue house area is just beautiful, with waving flags and flourishing 목련벚꽃, and 개나리 {magnolia, cherry, and forsythia. Sam is keeping me busy with Google translate!}

On Friday we met with John and 최광훈 {Choegwanghun}He took us out after our lesson for kimchi jjigae, which came with eggs, bean sprouts, and seaweed. Very good. We proselyted back home, and met the other elders. It turns out that about half of the cell phones in the mission are down, because the third-party service provider we use essentially failed, so we had to call everybody with the office land lines and try to figure things out. We’ll be getting a new provider, but we’re down for now. All of the missions in Korea are down right now, actually. Daejeon’s Mission President’s phone isn’t working, and about 90% of Busan mission is out. We just got a call that our phones in the office should be fixed relatively soon, and then they’ll start working on others.

On Saturday we went to the church for viewing recordings of the most recent General Conference, bringing our computer and projector and speakers and everything. 황현우 {Hwanghyeonwoo} came to the afternoon session, and John came to Priesthood session. This was a really good conference. I don’t know why, it seems that something was different. Anyway, all the questions I came with were answered and then some. President Michael Ringwood, our area president, who will be here in a couple of weeks for a mission tour, gave a great talk on motives and what really matters. President Uchtdorf’s talk on the Potemkin village is also very applicable. Appearances are way too important. It’s not that they’re not important, as missionaries and in life before and beyond, but you can’t be empty.

Between sessions we proselyted, and at the last minute I got some 낑깡- kumquats. Super good. I’ve never had them in America. Fruit is good over here, but so expensive. Kumquats are great, though! In the words of Elder Huckvale, “the skin tasted like oranges but the inside tasted kind of like peaches.” I ate so many that my mouth went kind of numb- I think you’re supposed to eat the peel but maybe not. We had curry between the afternoon session and the Priesthood session, but John didn’t have a lot, he said he wasn’t hungry. After Priesthood, though, he was suddenly ravenous, and we went out to get ddeokbokki {soft rice cake, fish cake and sweet red chili sauce} with a member. We discussed the history of Thanksgiving in America and how there’s different groups of people with the same last name in Korea on the way back, and came out of the subway to wait for the bus. And we waited. Due to a demonstration the buses were unable to come, and we walked home amidst many police, and made it all right in spite of the craziness.

Sunday was by comparison very calm. On the bus to Gwanghwamun we saw large piles of police barriers not yet cleaned up from the night before. There were very few people in the station, and we should have been able just to wait for the train, but I went looking, and looking, and looking, walking for quite a while. Finally there was one guy sitting down on a bench with headphones in. I said hello a few times, and I thought that he was ignoring me, but I decided to sit by him and try again. He took his headphones out and was very kind. He lives in Ilsan, and goes to the huge church there, but had come to Seoul to try going to another church, one where he had heard that you could play a bigger part, that you could have activities, serve, and live your faith. He was interested in who we are, and we referred him up to Elder Rosenberg. We watched more of the General Conference which was again very, very good. Some interesting themes about families and preaching the Gospel to all the world. The ward gave us a big bag of corn flakes, and we had doinjang jjigae for dinner with sweet potato, of course. 

{From the web: "Doenjang jjigae is a variety of jjigae or stew-like Korean traditional dish, made with doenjang (Korean soybean paste) and available ingredients such as vegetables, mushrooms, seafood, or dubu (tofu). It is regarded as one of the representative dishes of food in Korea along with Kimchi jjigae.
The dish is the source of the name Doenjang Girl, a South Korean stereotype of a woman who eats cheap food at home so she can drink expensive coffees in public.}
Today we will get haircuts and buy some groceries, and try to get Elder Perry well with some rest. Love to all and gratitude for a wonderful week. Until next time,
Elder South

Lost in translation--April 5, 2015

"Seafood Stir Fried Rice Drugs: 6,900 won" -Among a nearby restaurant's "top menu" items

When you can learn to find joy in the little things in life, every day is a marvelous adventure. I hope that all are doing well and that you have enjoyed this past week. The flowers are out and very, very beautiful here. We've had ups and downs in weather, with balmy days and torrential downpours, and we've been loving every minute. It is always a pleasure, our favorite thing, to be able to get out and proselyte in the most fun places in Korea. Insa Dong brings fascinating characters in a multitude of languages every time that keep us on our toes, Buam Dong brings quaint cafes bursting with dating couples, and Gwanghwamun lots of opportunities to take pictures for Chinese nationals and talk with some of the most successful businessmen in Korea.

Due to working on the college reapplication process, I will be fairly brief today {he keeps saying that, and keeps writing long emails! :-}}, but I am just so grateful for this time in my life. I'm growing everyday, and as I try to stay uncomfortable in a good way and make this the hardest thing that I've ever done, I'm just discovering more parts of the world, of life, and certainly of the Gospel than I ever have previously.

Another transfer {of missionaries around the mission, which he is partially responsible for making happen} is over, people are with their new companions, and the battle is won. This next transfer will be a challenge, with lots of missionaries going home, a mission tour by the Area President, and President and Sister Christensen going to Tokyo for a while, but it will be fun. We picked up new missionaries from the airport again this week, had a couple of training meetings, and finished up with a couple people coming to church and a baptismal service this past week.

This past week, as always, we had some fun stories. I will share a couple and then get to work!

One brother we talked to was a non-attending Catholic, but said that because of his religion he didn't want to talk with us. He brushed us off, but we kept talking, and it turned out that he was about to travel to China and spoke Chinese. Suddenly he was all for a lively conversation, and his wife came out of the store they were going to a couple times to gesture him in. After a few of these unsuccessful willing interruptions to our conversation, she came out again and briskly dragged her husband forcefully into the shop.

As we were proselyting in Insa Dong there was a violin player playing just beautiful in the light rain a rendition of Arirang. As the rain intensified, we found ourselves in another place, and ran across this Ukrainian violin player, with whom we should meet this week.

An investigator showed up to our 11am appointment at the office at 9, and said that he would just study until 11. He did, and we gave him some music for his dad, who loves the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.

I translated for the office couple at church this past week, and when you translate, it's just in and out, with not a lot of time to think. I found myself telling some very strange stories, and really doubted my accuracy, but I checked with the Korean elders afterward, and it turned out that I was somehow almost exactly on for stories during fast and testimony meetings such as the following:
-A gentleman in the days of King Sejong who visited a commoner to help him heal his hurt shoulder, and in the process shows love to the family in spite of class difference
-A missionary who fasted for just one meal at a time on his mission {instead of the usual 3, once per month} because the work was hard, but still received lots of blessings
-A grandmother's grandson's life's story, including his struggles and successes at school and his eventual attainment of a scholarship to an engineering college

We decided that the meaning of the stories just got lost in translation, but frankly, the Korean members looked just as confused as we were.

Coming back from church I also gave hard-boiled eggs  to a shouting passenger who had jumped on our bus, and the resulting silence led the master of meditation in traditional Korean robes who was sitting close by to give me a blueberry fig bar. Adventures every day.

We will watch General Conference this week, and are looking forward to it very much. Thanks to dad for sending the following beautiful quote from Elder Holland:

"Today we celebrate the gift of victory over every fall we have ever experienced, every sorrow we have ever known, every discouragement we have ever had, every fear we have ever faced—to say nothing of our resurrection from death and forgiveness for our sins. That victory is available to us because of events that transpired on a weekend like this more than two millennia ago in Jerusalem."

Easter is my favorite holiday, and always has been, because it just comes with so much hope for the future. A happy post-Easter to all, and all love until next week,

Elder South

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Samurai stance--March 29, 2015

A beautiful day to all.

Things have been going well. It can get a little stuffy in the office when the weather is so nice and we would just rather be out, but I'm learning to prioritize and work more effectively so that we can get out and maximize proselyting time in spite of meetings and whatever else there may be. We've been blessed, though, to see a lot of miracles this week, with some new investigators, some cool encounters, and just a lot of fulfillment. 

With the Yun family in Sanggye
Elder Ahn and I were able to go this week back to Sanggye, where I was lucky enough to be able to perform the baptism of Brother Yun's son, who is 10, on his birthday. It was a strongly spiritual experience, and just so fun to see that family taking that step together. Brother Yun (the dad) reads scriptures and the Liahona {church magazine} on his way to work every day, and is doing really well to associate with members in addition to his own personal spiritual development. We went out for dinner with them afterwards, but had to rush home to be able to make transfer calls {all the missionaries in the mission do a big shuffle to new places and faces}. There was, as always with transfer calls, the associated screams of excitement or surprise, but significantly less tears and refusals than last transfer, so we're feeling good so far.

I was able to go to Jungnang this week on exchanges, and we had a good time. I was with Elder Anderson, whom I was in the MTC with. One cool experience involved us talking to a very lively 90 year old man who invited us right up to his apartment. On the elevator ride up there were two proselytes from another church, ready to go to work. I commented about the weather, and one of them said, "You really need to learn Korean a bit more." The door opened, our new 90-year old champion started to press them out with his cane, and said, "Learn Korean? What are they, Japanese?" We had a great lesson with him, and I hope that they will be able to see him in the future! On the way out he picked up a bamboo training sword, sprung into samurai stance, and said that that's what he uses if any unwelcome visitors come.

The work in our area is starting to pick up a bit, and more investigators are able to meet regularly. We have more Chinese investigators than Korean once again, but my Chinese is pretty rusty at this point, so it's been tough! One former investigator from Imun came to church here yesterday, and it turns out that his niece is serving a mission for the church in England now. Another Chinese investigator who came to church, after watching "Finding Faith in Christ," said, "I just have such a strong feeling. I'm not sure what it is, but it's really strong." He also talked about the comfort that he feels from prayer, and how he feels that everything goes much better when he prays.

We went to a meeting this week with Robert Halley in attendance, a returned LDS missionary and big t.v. star in Korea. We were able to talk with him and his son for a while, and Brother Kim, Sister Maeng, and a few other Sanggye members were there as well.

New missionaries come into the airport tomorrow, so we start all over again then! Transfers are on Wednesday, followed by trainers' training. Picking up the new missionaries, tired but excited, is such a privilege.


"Has the day of miracles ceased?

Or have angels ceased to appear unto the children of men? Or has he withheld the power of the Holy Ghost from them? Or will he, so long as time shall last,or the earth shall stand, or there shall be one man upon the face thereof to be saved?

 Behold I say unto you, Nay; for it is by faith that miracles are wrought; and it is by faith that angels appear and minister..."


Angels are about!


Also, Caleb... *ahem* Congratulations~ {on his Stanford admission}

All of my love and prayers,
Elder South